fizzbitt Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 You have a mobile dont ya? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Yeah but she sits across the desk from me so it would be a bit obvious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fizzbitt Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 your point is? lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattchaps Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Who cares... dare ya Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 I'll get a couple later if I can. Hoepfully she'll be up for a ride in my car. Of course, the aircon wil be on full Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattchaps Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Good lad, thats the spirit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparkzz Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 BIG LOL at this post, thanks for making me smile on a real hard crappy day at work!!!...LOL.. fantastic post!! My thoughts are go for it, if she is moving anyway then sod it, and if she is flirting and up for it, then she dont deserve a bloke who puts a ring on her finger!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m4ttm4son Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Time for a late April fools joke - classic "bucket of water over the door"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 [ QUOTE ] BIG LOL at this post, thanks for making me smile on a real hard crappy day at work!!!...LOL.. fantastic post!! My thoughts are go for it, if she is moving anyway then sod it, and if she is flirting and up for it, then she dont deserve a bloke who puts a ring on her finger!!!! [/ QUOTE ] I'm moving jobs. She'll still be here. I'd also prefer her ring round my finger Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
agazzard Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Just hurry up with the pics, we're all waiting here!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 If I get any pics, they'll be for personal use only Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fizzbitt Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 in which case this thread is useless full stop and should be locked! tut tut... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
agazzard Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Now that's not Fair. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Unless I get the right offer................ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fizzbitt Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 You will be accused of being a prick teaser as well as her if you carry on in the same fasion! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 [ QUOTE ] You will be accused of being a prick teaser as well as her if you carry on in the same fasion! [/ QUOTE ] Eek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SINGH Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 interesting dilemma sat. I'd personally stay away if shes engaged. I'm also punjabi, Sikh and don't think it says anywhere in Sikhism we are meant to marry someone of the same race religion etc as it focuses on everyone being equal. I know of people who have married non Sikhs at my local gurdwara for instance. I could be wrong but I think its more of a traditional thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 [ QUOTE ] interesting dilemma sat. I'd personally stay away if shes engaged. I'm also punjabi, Sikh and don't think it says anywhere in Sikhism we are meant to marry someone of the same race religion etc as it focuses on everyone being equal. I know of people who have married non Sikhs at my local gurdwara for instance. I could be wrong but I think its more of a traditional thing. [/ QUOTE ] That's what it is. The old Indian culture thing of caste and religions being used to divide people. Personally, I'm not bothered who I get married to. I just want to keep my mum happy. My bro got married recently and my mum was really happy. My sis got married about 5 years ago and she was really happy then too. Both were arranged marriages. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SINGH Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 I understand your situation all depends on how strict your parents are, I think generally people are becoming abit more laid back, the whole jatt, tharkhan caste thing doesn't apply much anymore especially out of India , but is still brought up a lot. All the best Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 My mum isn't strict. She actually asked me if I wanted an arranged marriage and when. So I said that I would try to find a girl but if I didn't find one by 25 then I'd go for it. She's cool though. A lot better than some other parents I know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fizzbitt Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Im of Pakistani origin so its quite similar.. all i said to my folks was that they can look as well as I and take it from there. You never know mate, your mother might find you a stunner with all the right attributes lad.. hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 [ QUOTE ] Im of Pakistani origin so its quite similar.. all i said to my folks was that they can look as well as I and take it from there. You never know mate, your mother might find you a stunner with all the right attributes lad.. hehe [/ QUOTE ] Fingers crossed. Only got 3 years to go now though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fizzbitt Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Ha.. dont worry about the age thing man.. I got married almost a year ago last April at the age of 26... It dont mean jack as long as your happy. Just cos you told your mother you will wait till then dont mean that you have to stop looking while she is on the hunt for you as well. Arranged marriages are always a nice backup for when you give up looking yourself. Just remember that you will never be lonely whilst holding a British Passport! ahahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 [ QUOTE ] Ha.. dont worry about the age thing man.. I got married almost a year ago last April at the age of 26... It dont mean jack as long as your happy. Just cos you told your mother you will wait till then dont mean that you have to stop looking while she is on the hunt for you as well. Arranged marriages are always a nice backup for when you give up looking yourself. Just remember that you will never be lonely whilst holding a British Passport! ahahaha [/ QUOTE ] Nah, I told my mum to look but not to get anything set in stone. Already seen a few girls who are really nice-looking but are a bit snobby. Most of those girls seem to be from London though It's just that other family members are trying to get me set up too. Next week will be prime set up time as it's a major festival for Sikhs so will be a large gathering on Sunday up here. It'll be like a cattle market for all the eligible bachelors and bachelorettes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattchaps Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 [ QUOTE ] I'll get a couple later if I can. Hoepfully she'll be up for a ride in my car. Of course, the aircon wil be on full [/ QUOTE ] Anyways, back to the point... did you take her for a ride Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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